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Couples therapy isn't just for relationships in distress. Common signs that you might benefit from seeing a therapist include recurring conflicts without resolution, poor communication, feelings of distance or dissatisfaction, and significant life stressors like infidelity or financial strain. However, couples also seek therapy to strengthen their relationship, learn new skills for healthy conflict, or prepare for life changes together. Essentially, anytime you wish to improve your connection, communication, or handle a difficult decision together, couples therapy can be beneficial.
While some couples may fear that therapy could exacerbate their issues, this concern usually stems from the discomfort of having difficult but necessary conversations. An ineffective therapist or approach might sometimes lead to a negative experience, but in many cases, therapy challenges couples to be vulnerable in unfamiliar ways, which can be misconstrued as worsening the relationship. However, this process can be healing and beneficial in the long run. It's important to find a well-trained, licensed therapist, and remember that, for some couples, parting ways may ultimately be the healthiest outcome, representing a form of success in understanding what's best for both individuals.
It's not uncommon for one partner to be more enthusiastic about couples therapy than the other. However, therapy can still be beneficial if both partners are willing to attend sessions and try to engage with the process. Therapists are skilled at working with varying levels of engagement and can help motivate the less interested partner by highlighting the potential benefits for the relationship and addressing any fears or misconceptions about therapy. Over time, as the couple begins to experience improvements in their relationship, both partners often become more invested in the therapy process.
This is for my nephew. He suffered loss of all his family members in his development years (between age 9 to 12 years). His mother (my cousin) passing in , his only sibling in and his grandmother (my aunt) in . The family then sent him to stay with an abusive aunt, thereafter. My nephew's current behavior indicates some age regression or being stuck in a certain age. He is grown, now 28 years but he behaves like a child. Can't think for himself, self sabotages, not wanting to do anything with his life despite thousand opportunities we give him. Has no direction in life and is not bothered by anything. He sees himself as a child. Not sure if his brain stopped developing after he lost everyone he was close to in a short space of time. But his development seems like it got distorted somewhere in the time line.
In my spirit there is something that says I have to tell you about other boy i bumped the other day,i ask this boy why are you cry he said "While I was 6years I lost my parents on an accident I was in the crime scene but i survived i then took by my uncle and antie to stay with them after 4months uncle penetrated me and put me in a Three foot pot with semens(sperms) and blood galavanting from anus i got by my antie and I was referred by the social worker to stay at another province with foster parents after 3yrs I was deadly sick they took me to traditional couch leader he said i have a gift for prophecy so i have to go for training because i was sick nd i needed to be healed i attended training but what painful even that gobela would sleep with me in order for his powers to be activated,i ascape one day and never go back there,i took few months not eating, am feeling hopeless,useless,am alone I cnt afford even to buy a shoe or something to eat in order for me to take medication am alone I have depression everyday and night no brother, sister, parents,supporter, monitor and role model "after that I just cried the sad of it me the sad part of the story
I as the boyfriend cheated and left my partner even after finding out she was pregnant, the baby miscarried as a result of stress. My ex-partner then fell pregnant again with my child because of cheating I was not pregnant during the pregnancy. Now our lives have turned for the worst with things spiriling out of control.
Hello, I am a 26 year old male who is seeking a therapist who can offer support with addiction - more specifically I smoke cigarettes, weed and recently started frequently drinking alcohol. My main challenges are social anxiety, relationships and self belief. While I do thrive in certain elements of my life such as education and career, I am lacking on the personal side; family, friendship and maybe love. This is an area that I want to improve and I know it will bring me contentment but I'm struggling to let go of the past or perhaps my former. This is all very complicated for me and was hoping to speak with someone who has experience helping people like myself. Best of luck :) Regards
Yes , I want to book my mother in for therapy countless times she has been gambling with my dad’s money. And blames it on she is broke however she does not sleep with hunger , last night she took poison trying to kill herself because she had took money and gambled again this hurts my dad very much because he works hard for that money , I am worried that we might loose them both because of this
Evening I need help. I don't know how to express myself. I keep on hurting my ex girlfriend emotionally. I don't know why. And she's "got" someone else and it hurts me. I feel depressed. I can't eat. It's like I'm repeating her emotions that I gave her when we were dating. We have a child together. And she can feel all the emotions whenever something happens between us. And I keep on hurting her when I have indulged in alcohol, and alcohol I wish to stop drinking as well. Help me.
Tried to convince my Partner to go to counciling she refused tried to adress the issues but she tell me to go and devorce her she keeps on asking for chances just to go and do the things again that i see as an problem in our relationship like drinking wile im away for a month os sometimes two and i fee she is putting our sons welbeing at risk by being under the influence and being alone with my child at home having parties with money thats supposed to go for my child not paying the bills leaving me to in the dept