My in-laws want a divorce to hide unfaithfulness of their daughter. She infected me with a disease. They claimed that I fired her from home knowing very well that she got the disease. I would like you to talk to my in-laws.I 'm afraid that they might kill me to inherit my properties as I lobolad her.They summoned me to a traditional court who sided with them.The suggested that we must separate as to share my properties with her.
On the 29th of November I took greytown primary school principal to the ccma for unfair dismissal at the ccma we agreed that the school well pay me my severance pay of 10.-08 for 10 months.and I did not receive my uif ui19 forms from greytown primary school it's the Monday the 16th today and I did not receive any payment from the school or the principal
We were attacked by ladies with my friend and they followed us for about 3km.They were close to +-15 people , they were using knobkerries,sjamboks and stones to attack us acting on self-defence .They went to police station to open a case and it was during that period of 16 days of activism.I was so injured that I went to the Dr for being treated and I opened case against them on the 28 Nov but on Friday 13Dec24 police sent me case number and the case is not yet been investigated.
I am unable to drive on the highway and this has caused me severe anxiety and stress.im a good driver and used to drive from JHB to CapevTown on frequent occassions. I even drove in Dubai when I used to work in the UAE.it started last yr October when I rented a car with no power steering I thought it's PTS and started meditation.yoga and tapping .but still not helping
I want to appeal an arbitration award for non payment of S&T allowances. I feel the commissioner did not take important information (like the acceptance letter with explanation of in principle that was in the transfer letter )when reaching her conclusion. Also taken things that were not tabled during the hearing.
My husband filed for a divorce and we are married out of community of property without the accrual. We are staying in Ngodwana and I told him that if I need to move out of the house to Nelspruit, it is going to be costly and I will not be able to afford it. I got the summons on Friday, and there are some of the items that I do no agree with. I was also pouring my money into the house month after month and I said to him that we need to do some sort of a contract, because I do not even have a policy and his answer was that we do not need a contract, because he will look after me. I said to him I do not trust men because out of previous experiences, and he said he is not like other men. I need to move out this coming weekend, I got a place in Nelspruit. I did my calculations and I will not be able to even buy groceries or travel to Ngodwana for work. I even have no idea what he earned monthly and where he spent his money: I was even supporting his dad that was staying there for 4 years. Even when we went away I was the one doing the payments. We went to NZ in January, and when he got his bonus now in December, he refunded me his part of the spending, but what about the rest of the years: we have nearly been married for 13 years. I was paying the car and insurance, it is in my name, but he was also driving the car, I was buying the groceries, I was buying his close, I was buying bedding etc, for the house. He was only paying the medical aid and the roof over my head, which is a company house and the monthly payment is very little. From the end of January I also need to pay my own medical aid. He needs to pay me a lump sum or maintenance: he was well aware of the way we were married, but he promised to look after me and I want to keep him to his word.
Misrepresented by my lawyer (Legal Aid) No communication. Not given a chance for a prop consultation or listen to my side of the story. No advise or guidance from her side. I’m only requested for signing the documents or submit the evidence and documents. No phone calls, no sms or updates. The last document I received from her made me realize that I don’t actually have a Lawyer to represent me. I’ve been in this marriage for 10 years, living in an abusive marriage, my husband he’s a womanizer who sleeps with multiple woman and impregnated another woman out of our marriage. I forgive him and accepted to raise his son as my own, now he wants to divorce me and move on after I sacrificed everything for this marriage. He wants to take everything and give me 40 % of his pension fund. He moved some of the assets from the house, including 3 cars that he never mentioned while his evaluator came for inspection. I told my lawyer about all this information and she said I must provide my own evaluator of which I can’t afford one. I’m unemployed, my husband made me resign twice and told me he will support me. I’m currently unemployed without any spousal support from him. I really need your assistance. He moved out of the house to live with his new girlfriend and left me with nothing, no money no groceries in this December. I will really appreciate your assistance.
We need help mother quit eating 2 years wants us to shoot her. She had tests many no digestive system problems she refuse to eat Don't want to live any more She wants us to shoot her please help She weigh 40kg My father had 3 strokes and brother is meantly handy cap I work we need help for mom She don't talk either
I am married under Muslim rights for around 9 years now, not under government law. We have 3 children, all of whom are going to schools I've put them into next year, I'd like to keep them with me at least most of the time. I see to the children's education, that they're in schools and programs that will help them grow. I've also been the breadwinner since we got married and I'm afraid their won't be much stability if they stayed with their mother. I'm also afraid that they might get hurt around her while she's throwing any of her temper tantrums
I've been feeling like I'm not in control of my life recently. I'm a breadwinner to a wife and 3 children. I try to support my mother, although not very adequately recently. I think I'm a high earner, but I've recently lost control of my finances. I feel disrespected by my wife and I think it has an affect on our children, who I can't develop themselves when they're using the power struggle between the heads of the house to remove attention from them. Mom's temper tantrums seem to give the children the right to throw tantrums themselves I'm trying to fix my recent sleeping and weight issues. Two years ago I was waking around 3:30, to get to the gym at 5:30, I'd get back in time to take my children to school and prep them if necessary, my diet was also in order, I'd go to bed between 8:30 and 9 and get a solid 7.5 to 8 hours average sleep per day including naps. I feel like there's something I'm missing right now, but I'm not sure what it is. I also remember feeling a similar way around 20 years ago in my mid teens.
